Today is one of those days that I will remember as one of the greatest I have ever experienced. You know those days???? When you can reflect on something that happened or someplace that you went and it changed you forever. Today was one of those days for me.
It began with a breakfast meeting with my very first “professional” mentors. Stephen and Tricia Wake who own Focas Salon in Saint Charles IL. They taught me so much! So much more than how do to kick ass hair. They taught me how to be an amazing human being. They opened my mind to a whole life I didn’t even know was possible. A couple of weeks ago I had this moment where I had just realized what a profound impact these 2 people had on my life. I had always known it but I saw it differently at that moment for whatever reason. I knew immediately that I had to contact them! I had to let them know how wonderful they are. As a fellow small business owner we hear criticism on a regular basis and it is so rare that people go out of their way to share the good stuff. I knew that I had to let them know what a positive effect they had on my life. I knew going in that 2 things would happen as a result of it #1. It would give them the extra boost of confidence that comes from knowing you impacted someones life and it would keep them moving forward in helping them build their team. #2. It would allow me to work on my vulnerability and story sharing. What happened though was so much more than that. It became a collaboration of minds. 3 like-minded people traveling the same path in life sharing our “secrets” to success with one another to help empower the other. It was beautiful.
Next, I was in-between appointments and I was starving. There is a whole lot of eating involved in today I am realizing. Anyhow, I decided to check out this new restaurant in town called Craft Urban in Geneva, IL. Holy shit is this place incredible…1st off…talk about a visually appealing environment. It’s wide open, brightly colored but not obnoxiously, everyone has an edginess to them but not in an intimidating kind of way, and oh my god…the kindness…the genuine kindness. SO amazing! That is what I noticed just while walking in. Now, you get to the menu…simple, to the point, unique selections, OBVIOUSLY INTENTIONAL in every possible way. I struck up an amazing conversation with the bartender and the owner. This place is special. Not to mention they have a Friday and Saturday late night Ramen menu….what????? Every Friday and Saturday they have a new ramen selection. Taco Tuesdays serving different tacos every week…YUM, but I digress. The point is I learned their stories and it was beautiful.
Lastly but certainly not least I went to a new place for my pedicure today. Lisa Clark at Lacquered Up in downtown Geneva, IL. This woman….oh my god this woman. She is the most beautiful soul with such an amazing story not to mention she does some killer nails for a super super reasonable price (side note). It was because she shared her story and truly engaged in mine that I made a connection with this beautiful human being that I will never forget. I am truly and I do mean TRULY a better person as a result of talking to her for an hour. Her insight on life, love, perspective, intentionality, and her spiritual mindedness changed me!! Listen to what I am saying…..if she hadn’t allowed herself to be vulnerable and true that connection would have never happened. If I put up a wall and didn’t engage with her we both would have missed out on a connection.
Remember that is the whole purpose of life...connection. That is why we are here. There are so many people in the world that would say “oh it’s just nails”, or “it’s just hair”, or “it’s just bartending”…the list goes on of occupations that are snubbed but think of it this way…we sat eye to eye, there was actual physical contact which means there was a transfer of energy…we engaged with one another…we allowed ourselves to be vulnerable. If that is not some powerful shit I don’t know what is. Not only did Lisa give me the confidence that comes from looking my best….I feel great when my feet look good! She also touched my mind and my soul. Because of that PEDICURE I am a better person. I grew as a human being. Thank you Lisa Clark! (630) 277-2555 for all you local people….you won’t regret it 😉
Here is my point….it was through actual real conversation….REAL CONVERSATION that I was able to connect with people on a beautiful plane today. Imagine what I would’ve missed out on if I would’ve just been on my phone the whole time. What if I hadn’t reached out to Stephen and Tricia because I was to embarrassed about what they would think about me contacting them out of the blue. Imagine if I would’ve been to self-conscious to dine alone and didn’t go into Craft Urban today.
No matter who you are…no matter what your path in life is…you have so much to offer! You are so powerful….you have the ability to change someones entire life but ONLY if you allow yourself to be your true authentic self. Embrace every facet of your existence…whether you came from a life of tremendous abundance or horrible scarcity. No matter if you are a brain surgeon, a CEO, a nail technician, a hairdresser, a server, or a student…..YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO CHANGE THE WORLD…I beg you please do not pass that opportunity simply because you were too afraid to put yourself out there. GO BIG….show the world exactly who you are!
Please pass this along.. I would be humbled and honored if you would share this with someone in your life!